Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Who changed the rules? Is it still the same game?

OH MY! I think I need a playbook. What the heck is going on? I was so thrilled at having a drama free guy! Where did he go? Maybe it's me? I was enjoying going out and seeing movies, having dinner, just kicking it with his friends or mine. I really really enjoyed it. Now it's gotten weird.

For instance, last weekend there was a BBQ at his friends house. His friends invited me and him separately. I hadn't heard from him to say that 'we' were going or anything. So the day of, I informed him, that I would be going. I was after all invited. I just hoped he wouldn't mind. He just says sure, pick up a b-day card for him and that's was it, like no big thing. So I assume (I know, I know, never assume) that we are just going as 2 friends, like anybody else. I am cool with that.

So I get there, I start to mingle, strike up a conversation with the b-day boy's sister and friend. Doing the get to know everybody thing. Then he comes over and starts talking to me. Cool! He's a great conversationalist. Then he introduces me to his boss and a few other co-workers. I walk outside, he joins me, introduces me to other friends. Then he's back inside and I'm outside talking with the guys out there.

All in all, a good time was had by all (or at least I had a good time). Once the crowd thinned, there were a few of the b-day boys closest friends left. And as tradition dictates, the guys had to tell the new friend all of their most embarrasing and funny stories. I am really enjoying the story-telling when he (the guy formerly known as Drama-Free) get's up and announces that we should be leaving now. (OH no you dih-n't homey) Oh, but yes, he did.

So now I'm wondering... WTF? Are we or aren't we? And if we are, what are we? Or are you just being dramatic? I need to talk to this boy cuz I just don't get it. Again...WTF?